Chris McCandless
was a bright guy, certain about the direction he wanted to take and focused
solely on what he thought was important. He had a strong life and even though
it unfortunately short, I think he managed to live a fulfilling, at least
much more than other people did. Because of his desire and hunger to leave his
civilized life and to embrace a raw and challenging lifestyle where he would
explore himself, McCandless threw away and left behind his responsibilities to
his family and friends
and, according to his parents, to himself: responsibilities
of being a son, a brother, a friend. McCandless treated the very idea of relationships
kind of like a secondary, rather than a centered, part of his life. During the long
period when he was wandering and travelling, he sent occasional letters and
postcards to friends, and hardly ever to his parents. I think he
was big on privacy and individualism; he seemed to think that he was
responsible for himself, and he was responsible enough to claim to be solely
responsible for himself, and so therefore he disregarded the efforts of many to
form a long-lasting relationship with him in order to be with him
or to be updated throughout his journey that he wanted to take alone. Some may say that
McCandless was a rash and unwise man for leaving his old life and pushing away
his family and friends, but I think that what he did wasn’t condemnable. I
agree that a person’s responsibility and choice of relationships are up to
them, and even though
McCandless took this to the extreme, he wanted a life
of self-exploration for happiness and contentment, and if that life did not
include his family and other people, then that’s that.
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